Leave A Comment For Asher
By CJ Mills on May 22, 2008 in asher
Given the unique circumstances of Asher’s entrance into the world, we haven’t really been able to do all the “fun” baby book stuff that we would have liked to do. As a result, I’d like to try something with the several 100 of you who have been checking in on a regular basis.
Here is what I’d like you to do:
1) Leave a short message
2) Let Asher know who you are and
3) Where you’re from
We will take all of the comments, prayers and words of encouragement and place those in Asher’s baby book for him to remember the many people who were thinking about him before they ever met him.
It has been encouraging to see how many people are thinking about us!
Let Asher know you’re thinking about him here.
This post is in support of Carlos Whittaker’s Creative Chaos.
Andy Borgmann | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hey Little Buddy. I am your “uncle” Andy and I live in Alpharetta, GA. I was with your parents at Hilton Head when your mom went into labor. I was the one who took your mom to the hospital and took care of your sister for the first day (boy was she was not happy about that).
I felt a little bad, because on the way to the hospital, when we thought your mom was fine, I told her, in my normal “I am trying to be funny but not really funny tone,” that I wanted her to have you because it would make for the best story. Well, you must have been listening because four hours from that comment you graced us with your presence.
The next couple of days were incredibly stressful for me and your dad, but it was totally worth it when I walked into the NNICU in Charleston and saw you there.
You were bigger than all the other babies in there, which was a sign to me at least that everything was going to be just fine.
Your dad had to pry me away after I made a b-line (and cut him off) so I could look at and touch your face.
It was truly one of the most special moments I have ever had in my life and I feel truly blessed to have been apart of it from day 1.
Andy Borgmann’s last blog post…Holy Cow I Am Tired…
Brook | May 22, 2008 | Reply
“Hey Big Guy… I went to college with your Daddy, and until recently, had kind of lost touch with him.” I was there (via Twitter and your daddy’s blog) when you were born…and have been praying for you ever since. Blessings, little mate…make you momma/daddy/heavenly daddy proud…like we know you will…
Brook’s last blog post…a week gone…
Alyson Wolf | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher, me and my husband Jonathan are good friends with your mom and dad. We live a block away from you. Your sister has a special place in our hearts. We love our time with her. We are so excited for you to come home so we can get to know you and love you. We look forward to the day when (like your sister) you come to our house, ring the doorbell, and say “Aly want to play?” You are a little fighter and we know God has great things planned for your life.
Taffy Troup | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hey little guy, I work with your daddy at American Specialty. We check his blog throughout the day to see how you, your big sister, your daddy and mommy are doing. We’re all asking the angels to watch over you while you grow big and strong so that you can come home soon. Lots of love going out to you, Jade, Daddy, and Mommy. We are blessed that you have joined our family too!!
Laurie Sherck | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Welcome to the family little Asher!! I can understand why you would want to arrive early–you have a terrific Mom & Dad and sister!! I look forward to meeting you in person soon. And, someday down the road–you’ll be able to swap stories with your cousins of how God chose you to perform a miracle through, and we can all marvel over what an awesome and mighty God we serve!! Love, Great Aunt Laurie
jason | May 22, 2008 | Reply
hey asher! My name is jason and I’m from maumee ohio! We are praying for you and your family so that soon you will be able to go home and enjoy life!
-with love, jason
Rene Waterson | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Well hello little one! I work with your Daddy at American Specailty. Boy, you sure did surprise everyone with your sudden entrance into the world! We are so glad to hear that you are doing so well. You are so strong! I think you have your Daddy’s curly hair. You are so perfect in every way! We pray for you to continue to get stronger every day so you can come home. Tell Mommy, Daddy and Jadyn Hi! They love you sooooo much.
Michael Santa | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hey big guy, my name is michael. Your dad means a ton to me and some other college guys. You have already shown that you are a fighter, and that is a great quality to have. I am praying that you continue to fight to get through this and then continue to do so when you grow up.
With love,
Michael
Zac Hill | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Welcome baby Asher! If I did my homework right, your name means happy and/or blessed. As a daddy to my own kids, I know that you already represent both of those qualities to your parents, as well as your sister and other family and friends. Your life is sure to be a grand adventure! You are loved.
Zac Hill and Family
Deb Swihart | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher, I work at College Park Church and have followed your progress from the first word. Welcome little guy. You are so special and loved. As you read these notes years from now, know that hundreds are praying for you not only at the beginning or your life but throughout all your days. God Bless you and get strong quick
Chris Sherck | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
What a blessing I know you already are to so many people, but most importantly your two loving parents. As difficult as I’m sure it is and was to see you fight for life, I can only imagine that your parents in their fear and sadness for you have held their head high with pride as they watch you, their little boy, do everything you can to be able to just rest in their arms. What a miracle you are! What great things I’m sure God has in store for you as I’m sure He is already at work in helping you become the boy and the man He created you to be. I look forward as a second cousin to watch you grow and see your fighting spirit keep your parents on their toes in the years to come.
Pat Rowland | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
I have known your parents for a long time and have had the privledge to watch them grow and mature (your dad had to go much further then your mom), and to watch there relationship grow and develop. I was even in their wedding. You are very lucky to have parents that care so much about you. You are also very lucky to have a really great support family around you. You have some incredible aunts and uncles that love and will care for you all your life. Birth is a miracle in and of itself, and yours was nothing short of that. As I look at your picture I see the uniqueness that God put in you through your parents and can’t wait to see all that God does in and through you. You probably don’t know this but God is forming in you a passion that one day will explode into a gift to the world. I can’t wait to see it!
Pat Rowland’s last blog post…Back and Barely Moving
Steve & Tina Shoemaker | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hi little Asher,
She is such a cutie, just like you!
This is “aunt” Tina, your Bulgarian aunt. Yes, I am your international family :)You may wonder how I can be your aunt … well, I am your mom’s twin sister at heart. We went to college together, we were roommates and best friends and I love her dearly! Steve is my husband who also went to Huntington College with us.
We love you and are so thankful to God for loving you and keeping you healthy and safe. You are such a blessing and true testimony of God’s love for his people. And we know that He has put you in wonderful hands - your parents are amazing and your sister Jadyn will teach you many fun things
We can’t wait to see you and give you lots of kisses!
Love, Steve & Tina
Lisa Ruggles | May 22, 2008 | Reply
CJ,
We have been praying for you, Andrea and Asher. My girls pray for him every night. With being in a hotel room we have lots of extra time so the girls
Thank you for your post on Brad’s sight today. When I think about all you are going through, it helps me to be thankful for our circumstances. I can’t wait to see your little fighter in a year! You will be amazed at how quickly he will catch up. Our oldest was 7 weeks early. You and your family will continue to be in our prayers!
are reading blogs young.
Lisa Ruggles
Chloe Ruggles | May 22, 2008 | Reply
My name is Chloe Ruggles, from Indy, Indiana, I am 7 years old. My mom and I read your blog every day. We pray for you and your family every night. Maybe someday we will get to meet you.
Love,
Chloe Ruggles
Valerie Rumple | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hey asher, my name is valerie and i’m from fort wayne, IN. i went to school with your mom in high school. keep fighting little one, you are very strong and in the best hands ever, God’s. we’re praying for you and your family.
Varun Kaushik | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hey Asher! I went to college with your dad and work with him now at American Specialty! Keep fighting, little one! You are one impressive kid! Everyone back home is really excited about you and can’t wait to see you. Stay strong, Asher.
Chris Elston | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hi little Asher,
Our family is: Chris, Lori, Brooke & Brianna . We know your dad and mom through College Park Church. Turns out your dad and Chris are the same type of people. “Geeks”. By the time your old enough to read this, we will both be amazed at what kind of technology advances their have been made in the world. And their probably won’t be such a thing as “blogs” and “twitter”. We’ll have ticker watches we read feeds that transmit our thoughts from our brains to an RFID chip and uplinks the thought stream to a satellite and we can watch tickers go buy on our wrist what our friends are up to. Keep fighting and grow strong. Mom and Dad are good people. Turns out they sing and play music too, exceptional talents, though if you ask them about it now, they may deny their abilities. Don’t let them fool you into singing you a lullaby song.
Kate | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hello Sweet Baby Asher James,
I first learned about you through your Daddy’s tweets and blog. I am praying for you and your mama, daddy and big sister. I am so thankful for God’s grace to you and your family. I pray you keep growing stronger so you can go home real soon. One day when you’re big and your mama and daddy take you on a vacation to Washington DC or all the wonderful historic places in Virginia (that’s where I live!), I hope you will meet me for ice cream and tell me stories about how God has taken care of you!
Angie Parker | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Our family has been praying for you and your mom, dad and sister. We are looking forward to the day we meet you, we live in the same great town! I love the chapter in the Bible found in Psalms 139 and part of that chapter verses 13- 16 reminds me of you and how thankful I am that we have a loving God who watches us wherever we are. Your coming early was a great suprise to everyone except our Maker and we will continue to pray his hand on your precious life. We love you and your family.
Brooke | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
I am your “honorary great aunt.” I was thrilled to find out on March 10th after your mommy’s dr. appt. that she was going to have a boy, YOU! I took your mommy shopping almost right away and we bought you many cute outfits in anticipation of your arrival in July! Boy did you fool us! =] Most of those outfits will have to be returned or exchanged for sizes that fit you! (But don’t worry, your mom is a MASTER when it comes to trading and exchanging!!!) This is just the beginning of a lifetime of love and spoiling that I can’t wait to do for you! Your big sister Jadyn is very special to me too, just like your mommy and daddy are! God has put you in a very special family and I know that your life will be a full and wonderful one! I have already watched you melt your mommy’s heart, make your dad’s heart swell with pride and create a soft spot in your sister’s heart for you. You are one special little boy and I can’t wait to see you for the first time! Much love and many prayers, “Aunt” Brooke
Lauren Vandlen | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher, my husband Nate and I went to college with your mom and dad! We are praying that you grow stronger every day. You are a little blessing from God. Your parents are blessed to have you in their lives. I’m sure that Jadyn is a proud big sister! My prayer is that you will always see how the Lord has worked in your life and that you will always choose to follow Him.
Lauren, Nate and Paeton Vandlen
Drew Mills | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hey Asher,
This is your uncle Drew. Man, you sure surprised us the day you were born. That will be a flashbulb memory for sure. I can’t wait to meet you and hang out with you, it will be awesome!
I’m sorry I’m not better at these things and I don’t have any earth shattering things to say aside from the fact that I love you and will see you soon.
Drew Mills’s last blog post…My job could beat up your job.
Brandon Bisch | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Hang in there little man! I was born about as early as you were- everything will be fine!
Heather Duling | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Welcome to the World Asher,
We live in Huntington, IN and go to church and bible study with your family. I am so happy to be a part of this group of people to pray for you and your family at this time. All the pictures of you are so sweet and handsome. I rejoice in the milestones that you have passed, and how well you are doing. We will continue to pray for your family and for your strength and health as you grow bigger.
Love, Heather, Josh, Conner and Ethan Duling
Micah | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher, what’s up bro?
You don’t know me yet but my name is Micah. Your dad and I go way back. We basically were rockstars in the hit band Near The Door (better known as NTD). Oh yeah, your mom was in the band too. (She wasn’t quite the rockstar your dad and I were… she was more the responsible one. She got us to shows on time, made sure we ate right, etc.) Anyway, you picked a good family to join. Congrats on that. I can’t wait to meet you and tell you more crazy stories about your dad.
Sleep tight buddy,
Micah
karen rice | May 22, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
We go to church with your mom and dad. I have you big sis in my sunday school. And before we know it you will be in my class to. We have been watching your blog since we found out you was born. And have been praying ever since. Take care, God bless.
Gary,Karen,Jessica,Morgan,Elizabeth,Grace Rice
Michelle Smith | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Hey there little guy
My name is Michelle and I know your Uncle Drew. I know had some problems coming into this world and I have been praying for you. You get better soon so you can go home with your mommy & daddy.
Take Care Asher
Erika Lee | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Hey little babe. You are so beautiful and are bringing your parents so much joy! We are praying for your whole family. Can’t wait to meet you!
Rick Millikan | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Hello Asher!
I heard about you through your Uncle Drew and wanted you to know that you have good wishes and prayers coming from me out here in Las Vegas, NV.
My little boy, Nicholas was born 5 years ago this month and showed up a little earlier than expected just like you. I guess sometimes the waiting IS the hardest part since he got a jump on life and hasn’t slowed down since.
I am sure you’ll keep your accelerated pace going also but remember now and then to slow down for mom and dad… us older people need a chance to catch our breath.
Best wishes Asher on quickly gaining your strength and getting to go home!
Bronwen Fetters | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher! I’m Bronwen Fetters. I know your parents from church, and my brother is in your dad’s small group. We have been praying for you so much. I know that you are going to be an awesome, smart, adorable little kid, and I cannot wait to meet you in real life!
Pastor Phil & Darlene Burkett | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
As I write this, we haven’t met yet. I’m Pastor Phil and my wife is Darlene. We are involved with the music at College Park Church.
You decided to make your entrance early and surprised everyone, mostly your Mom and Dad. We have been praying for you since we heard you were joining Mom and Dad on vacation at Hilton Head. We know God will protect you and that God has a great plan for you r life. We also know that not only God loves you very much but there are a lot of people who love you, your Mom and your Dad. We pray that God will always be with you to guide you and bless you.
Pastor Phil and Darlene Burkett
Harmony Gerlach | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
Welcome to the world! My name is Harmony and I got to church with your mom and dad. We have been praying for you like crazy! Keep fighting and getting stronger so you can come home soon!
Mandy Rowland and girls | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Little Asher,
We are so thrilled to see how quickly you are progressing. I am so glad we have had the opportunity to follow your progress through your daddys blog. What a little miracle you are. Although your early birth surprised all of us - all of your days were already laid out by our Heavenly Father and He was totally prepared! 
We already love you and pray that God will continue to make you strong enough to be home really soon. 
We have been praying for you. It is obvious you are a little fighter.
Dave Harris | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher-
My name is Dave Harris and I work with your dad in Roanoke. Whenever I see a picture of a newborn like you, I am reminded of what a miracle and a blessing babies are to their families. I agree with Pastor Phil that God has a plan for you and it will be filled with great opportunities. Our family is praying for you and your family and we are so thankful that you have such a loving and caring mother, father and sister. My son Tony (who your dad worked with for a while) and his wife Kelly just had a little boy (Alex) a week before you were born. Maybe you and Alex can come visit me when you get older and we can go fishing!!
Israel | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher-
I don’t know you, your mom, or your dad, but your story has touched my heart. I am praying for you and your family. Continue to be strong big guy. You too mom, dad, and big sis.
LouAnn Sherck | May 23, 2008 | Reply
This is your Great Aunt LouAnn…I just wanted you to know we have been praying and thinking about you constantly…you are another miracle in the Sherck family…God is so good!!!We look forward to getting to meet you in person, (and of course to see daddy, mommy and your little sister soon). May each day continue to find you a little stronger and ready to be brought back to Indiana….WE LOVE YOU and YOUR FAMILY.
GregQualls | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
It has been so awesome to see God working in your life and the life of your parents. Continue the good fight.
Greg
GregQualls’s last blog post…Beer Tip of the Week - Episode 5 - The four flavors of beer.
Renee Adams | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher -
I’ve been waiting to write to you…reading everyone’s messages and thinking what could I possibly say that everyone else hasn’t already.
Your Mom and I have been the best of friends for 10 years. (A fun story to share when you are much..much older!)
I’m so excited to watch you grow and live out God’s plan for your life.
I pray you are blessed with a friendship like the one your mom and I have.
You are a miracle Asher and so many love you!
All my love,
Neigh
Marvin | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Hey Asher!
My name is Marvin and I have the pleasure of leading worship with your dad at College Park Church in Huntington. He is a man full of strength and determination. I’m glad to see that the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Keep up the good fight and I look forward to meeting you soon!
May God continue to bless you and your amazing family on this journey.
-Marvin McNew, Jr.
P.S. Hopefully someday you’ll be playing drums. We sure could use you at CP!
Velma Sherck | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher James,
I’m your Great Grandma Sherck or “G G” as some of the other little great grandchildren call me. You are my 8th great grandchild and I love every one of you. You are all so very precious. My prayer is that you all grow up to be beautiful human beings both inside and out.
You certainly surprised all of us with your early entry into this world and I pray that you will continue to grow stronger every minute and will soon be back in Indiana where you belong.
I guess you wanted to be different as you are the first to be born out of our state of IN.
Your dad may be a geek as someone said, but it sure is nice that he has the knowledge and skills to be able to keep us all informed as to what is happening when they are away. We would have all gone totally bonkers, I do believe, if he wasn’t so good at keeping us informed.
Well little guy, I am looking forward to seeing you soon…..Love & continued prayers…..”GG”
Liz & Caleb Hanna | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Welcome to the world Asher! We are in small group with your mom and dad and are so excited to meet you. I guess you couldn’t wait to see everyone too! We have been praying for you, your parents, and big sister from the moment we heard you were on your way. You have already proven to be such a strong little guy. God has big plans for you and we are excited to see how He will use you. As soon as you are big enough Baby Mason is ready to have a buddy to play with!
Nancy | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Nancy | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Jadyn was wonderful all of the way home. We had to stop a lot, of course, but each time she was ready to get back in the car and go to “Grandma’s house”. Cassandra has a wonderful story to tell of what she said when she went into her own house…but I will let her tell it! She is beautiful and being so good!! Each time she says that she wants her mommy, I tell her that her mommy wants her, too, and will be here in just a few days. Then she just smiles and says “o.k.”. I also want to speak to my beautiful new grandson….Asher James, you are an amazing miracle and have already filled our lives with so much love and promise….God is so good! Just to touch you filled me with awe….I love you more than there are words to express. Andrea, I am so proud of you…how you are handling all of this. I love you. CJ, thank you for loving your family…there is no better gift that you could give to me. You are all in my prayers and I am so thankful to our Lord God for answering all of the prayers of His believers so quickly. We will see you in just a few days!
Love, Mom, Mom-in-law, and Grandma
Roger Vezeau | May 23, 2008 | Reply
Asher, I know your welcome to this world was rather sudden and unexpected. But you are in good hands and countless people are praying fro your and your family. And lucky you…God gave you some awesome parents who will love you and care for you the rest of your life. Can’t wait to meet you when you get home. Oh and just word of warning…be sure to wear a smile as much as you can, because your dad will be catching you on film every step of the way! : ) Blessings little one!
Roger Vezeau
Kathy | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Hello Asher, Welcome to the Mills Family. You and your sister are very special to us because you are our grandchildren. You sure like to do things your own way by making your early appearance. It’s been really hard staying in Indiana and not heading down to where you and your parents are but because of your daddy’s blog and cell phone, we get to see how you are improving. It was so wonderful to see your name and weight on the blog right after you were born and then a picture AND video. Asher we look forward to having you come to Grandma’s and Grandpa’s house and play. We enjoy and look forward to the visits with your big sister and will feel the same way about you. Stay strong so we can see you on Tuesday! We LOVE YOU, Grandma and Grandpa
Velma Sherck | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Hi Little Asher,
This is your Great Grandmother (G G) again. I must correct myself. I said in my first note that your were the first Great Grandchild to be born out of the state of Indiana but that is wrong. Baby Ruth who also was almost 2 months early was in Illinois when she decided to enter this world then was transported to Riley Children’s Hospital in Indianapolis. Sorry about the goof but I had to correct myself before some of the family decided to ship me off to the funny farm because of my senility.
Love and Prayers…..”G G”
Great Grandma Hammel | May 24, 2008 | Reply
I’m so thankful that our little guy is now off of most of the support hook-ups. We are so blessed!! I am looking forward to having you all back with us. Jadyn & I are having a good time today at her Grandma’s house. At the moment she is giving me a new hair style and she says that she is almost done….Wow! What a style it is!
All of my love and prayers,
Take care,
Great Grandma Hammel
.angela. | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Why hello there little buddy –
This is your Aunt Angela…Welcome to the family. We are so glad you’re here…and that you didn’t get the “always late Mills family gene.” You are so lucky to have the Mom and Dad that you do.
When I have kids, I’m going to pay your mom to raise them. Just kidding. But I’m hoping for a “How-To” book (no pressure, Andrea). Your mommy’s going to teach you all kinds of stuff before you even get to school, it’ll be awesome.
When I was little, your daddy taught me how to play all sorts of sports – how to bunt in softball, how to correctly kick a soccer ball, and so on. So, if sports are something you decide to pursue, you’ll have an awesome coach in your dad.
Your big sister is pretty awesome, too. I know she’ll be great with you because she loves taking care of people. One time she encouraged me to climb a slide and cheered me on and even spotted me while I climbed the ladder, she’s also great at kissing boo-boos and telling you it’ll be ok (she learned from your Mommy), and she always looks out for the baby dolls and tries to feed them before she will eat. Bottom line, she’s got your back. And so does the whole fam. Love you and can’t wait to see you in person!
Love,
.angela.
.angela.’s last blog post…Happy New Day!
Megan Brown | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Hi Baby Ahser,
I am your Aunt Kelly’s sister and a friend of your Mommy’s. I am so very excited to see that you are doing well! I have been praying for you ever since your Uncle Nate received the phone call from Aunt Cassandra. I just want you to know that you have the coolest cousins ever, Lexi and Jarin, and they are very excited for you to come home so that they can meet you! I am praying for you and your family while you are away from home.
If any of you need anything please don’t be afraid to ask.
Love,
Megan Brown
Bea Elias | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher,
I work with your grandma and she shared with us all the news about your birth, how mom and dad were doing, and about how well you were and are doing. She loves you very much and cried tears of worry about you and your mom and dad, shared the joy of hearing about everyone who helped mom and dad while they worried about you, praised God for the miracle of you and for all the postive things that were happening, and shared your daddy’s and Andy’s websites with us so we could see your pictures and read the story of your birth. Perhaps the greatest thing for me was the beautiful picture your dad made of the sunset and your sweet face. I knew then that you would soon be coming home for it personified all the glory that is our Heavenly Father. God is good and may you always know him in your heart.
Bea
Gary Grover | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Dear Asher, Mom and Dad: Our little boy, Colin, was born in circumstances similar to yours. He is now a tall handsome young man with a sweet heart and a generous spirit. We have been praying for you all - we know how scary it has been for you. The good Lord is answering our prayers, for your health and happiness. We thank Him and ask for His coninued blessings on your family.
Gary Grover, your cousin in Texas
Jadyn Mills | May 24, 2008 | Reply
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Asher James,
Wait til you see your bedroom at home, it is so cool. You are the cutest baby I have ever seen.
I love you Asher James,
Your Big Sister,
Jadyn
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Janet Clark | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Dear Ones, I can only imagine the anxious moments you have experienced in the last several days. Babies are such precious gifts and it hurts so much to see them in any distress. Asher is absolutely adorable–just as cute as his big sister–and we are praying he will soon be as strong as her. I know God is leading you through each day and night. At such times we realize it really is His strength that holds us together. I am guessing that God is using you in the lives of others at this time,also. Phil. 4:13, my favorite. Miss Janet
Denny and Joyce Leinbach | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Asher–
This is Pastor Denny and Joyce Leinbach–we live in Fort Wayne, Indiana. When we heard you had come into this world of ours, we had company at our house. Joshua, Gwen, and little Grace Leinbach from California were here visiting. Grace is 6 months old now and she would love to say, “Hi” to you. God has something very important for you in this world and He will be with you always!! This is our prayer for you. From all 5 of us Leinbachs
Sarah Kieffer | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher!
Your Mommy is one of my closest friends. We’ve known each other since we were just geeky little teenagers. Some of my favorite memories of growing up were spent with your mom. I can’t wait to watch while you grow and create amazing memories like the ones your Mommy and I made together.
I love you buddy,
Sarah
Cassandra Heffelfinger | May 24, 2008 | Reply
Hey there kiddo…your mom keeps pestering me about not posting a note for you so I thought that maybe I should get her off my back:-) For starters, I want you to know that your entrance into the world could have been timed a bit better. I am missing out on the first days of your life and it’s kind of tough. In spite of this absence, I already love you so very much. I’m so very excited to watch you grow and see your personality come to life.
As I sit here an type, so many things to say come to mind, so I’ll limit myself. I think that you should know that I think your mom is quite awesome and your dad isn’t so bad…haha, just kidding. Your dad is wonderful and you’re so very blessed.
As we celebrate your unexpected arrival, we also continue to pray for you unceasingly. Keep fighting little man. You are a very precious gift and a wonderful addition to our ever growing family. I can’t wait to meet you!!
P.S. Don’t let Jade boss you around too
much:-)
Kelly Heffelfinger | May 25, 2008 | Reply
Hey Little Man,
I am your aunt Kelly, better known as Lexi and Jarin’s mommy. They are your cousins and they love you very much. They are always asking me if we can get on the computer and see pictures of you and your sister. Jarin has even figured out how to log on to your blog by himself. He is pretty computer savy seeing as how he is only 4 years old.
Your zest for life continues to amaze me; you are one tough little guy. I am excited to see the ways that God has shown his amazing powers, and will continue to show, through you. He must have some amazing plans in store for you. Your miraculous entrance into this world is just the start. I am excited to watch you grow and can’t wait to see His plan for your life unfold.
I hope you know how much I love you and that I will always be here for you. I can’t wait to meet. Until then, continue fighting and know we love you and are praying for you.
Love Always,
Aunt Kelly
Nate Heffelfinger | May 25, 2008 | Reply
Hello there, this is your uncle Nate and hopefully someday your dentist (that is if I don’t mess up Mommy and Daddy’s teeth). I live in Auburn Indiana with your aunt Kelly, your cousin Alexis and your other crazy little cousin Jarin. All I have to say is its good to have another dude in our family of many women.
On a more serious note, your entrance into this world has been very eventful but yet a wonderful blessing to not only your parents but also your uncle Nate as well. You see, it is not every day that I get to see the power of prayer played out in my own life. Being here in Indiana we felt powerless to help you or your parents. However, through prayer we were able to help from many miles away. God has revealed his power to me each day as we have recieved good news of your progress. Many times throughout each day I have stopped to ask the Lord’s blessing over you and your parents. It has been very humbling to see him work in your life and reminds me of his goodness towards us whom he loves.
I will continue to pray for you until everything is ok and you get to go home. We eagerly await your arrival here in Indiana. See you soon.
Uncle Nate
Nancy | May 26, 2008 | Reply
Good morning Asher….it’s Grandma Nancy. I am so excited that you are coming home tomorrow and bringing you mommy and daddy with you! It will make it a very beautiful day!! I showed your picture on the front screen at church yesterday morning, so that everyone could see who they are praying for and a very loud “ahhhhhhhhhhhh” went through the sanctuary!! Your life fills me with awe of the power of our God and I am so blessed to be able to share in your life. There are not sufficient words to tell you how much I love you….I will see you soon.
Love,
Grandma
Shelly and Ryan Middleton | May 26, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher,
We are in a small group with your mom and dad and have praying for you since we knew of your first moments. We can’t wait for you to be home so we can meet you!
Love, Shelly and Ryan
Alexis N.Heffelfinger | May 26, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher I hope your healthy and safe and have a safe trip to your new home.
Your cousin,
Alexis
Jeff Heffelfinger | May 26, 2008 | Reply
Asher
What a grand entrance into this world you made. With each day the miracle of your life unfolds- and so it will whether you be 8 weeks early or a 100 years old. Know that wherever you go in life, whatever you do that you will never be without a large family that loves you dearly.
Love Grandpa Heffelfinger
Tara | May 26, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
What a strong man and fighter you are. I look forward to meeting you. You have wonderful parents. They care so much for you, as well as all of us. They will teach you so much and have prayed and cried over you so much. You have great grandparents and aunts and uncles as well. The Sherck family gathering will be lots of fun for you as get older. It is kinda chaotic with all of us, but there are lots of kids your age that would love to play with you. We have been praying for you, and know God will provide.
We love you and can’t wait to meet you.
Michael, Tara, and Jacob Watts
Tara’s last blog post…its been a while
Mark Wiley | May 27, 2008 | Reply
Wow Asher, hats off to you. You sure did surprise all of us coming into this world a few weeks early…not to mention being born on the family vacation, but I know that you just wanted show off a little bit of your fight and determination with the rest of us, plus you got a headstart on living life with your aweseome family. I’ve become really close friends with your family and espeically your dad, and I know that you’ve got an extra set of 8 uncles back home in his small group. We are all praying for you and looking forward to meeting you so we can start your training for the 2026 World Cup.
Much Love,
Mark
Rachel Bandor | May 27, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
I met your daddy in high school, and I know he will take great care of you! Your mom sounds like such a sweet lady too! I know exactly what she has been going through lately, but it sounds like she is staying strong!
I just wanted to let you know that you have to be the cutest baby ever! It sounds like you had such a rough time coming into this world….but it’s worth it in the end! We love you!
Cathy Hacker | May 27, 2008 | Reply
Hey little one, I work with your daddy at American Specialty. I have been checking up on you every day and rejoice in your progress. You are one of God’s miracles and He clearly has a special plan for you. We will continue to keep you, Mommy and Daddy and big sister Jadyn in our prayers. Enjoy your flight home!
Jim O'Donnell | May 27, 2008 | Reply
Dear little Asher,
While I don’t yet know you, I hope I will one day get that privilege. However, I can let you in a something that is very important to you both now and in your future. And that is that your mom and dad love you a whole lot and that they are wonderful, wonderful people.
It’s too bad, but not as many little people, like you, enter the world these days with the kind of love and commitment that your mom and dad have for you, for each other, and for your very big sister.
Right now, I’m trying to stay out of your mom and dad’s hair and out of the way of all the doctors and nurses and other caregivers that you’re needing to get to know. But I pray for you, and my Lizzie - who you don’t yet know either, but will - prays for you that you will be doing well really soon. We know how hard things can be.
But never lose hope.
God bless you, my sweet little one.
Jim O’D
Allison Smiley | May 27, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
Apparently you take after your mom, you want to do things early
I have been friends with your mom since late elementary school and your dad since middle school. They are wonderful people and God has truly blessed your beginning by placing you in their family. I won’t see you often but I think about your family a lot and I can’t wait to see you grow up! I’m sure God has big plans for you and it will be fun to watch. Give my love to your mom and dad. Can’t wait to meet you, Allison
Velma Sherck | May 28, 2008 | Reply
Asher, I just wanted you to know that you and your mommy & daddy and sister were prayed for the last two Sunday’s during prayer time at the First Church of God in LaGrange, IN. Also our prayer network was notified shortly after you were born so all could pray especially for you.
Our Pastor told about you the first Sunday and ask me to update this past Sunday also different ones have contacted to ask how you are doing.
I was so happy to read on Daddy’s twitter that you had arrived in Ft. Wayne. I followed the progress all morning. I love you…..”GG”
Jennifer Garrett | May 28, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
Even reading these notes you probably will not know exactly how special you are to your parents and what they are willing to endure to make sure you have the best start to your life. I work with your daddy and know how crazy with worry and how filled with love at the same time he is for you, even if it did take him a week to finally hold you. You are a very special child and already hold the hearts of many. Continue to be strong because it will get you through the tough times facing you now and all the tough times yet to come. And don’t forget to tell your mom and dad that you love them because they sure love you.
Chuck Miller | May 28, 2008 | Reply
I will pray for you every day and it was a great to meet your mom and dad and help out your big sister to get back home to Indiana.
I know that God has great plans for you and that He loves you.
Tina Whitney | May 28, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
I work with your Grandma Kathy. With the help and prayers of her and many others it seems as though you are doing well and have been tucked in safely here in Fort Wayne, Indiana. I look forward to meeting you someday and will continue to prayer for you and your continued improvement.
God Bless,
Tina Whitney
Kendra Brenneman | May 28, 2008 | Reply
Asher James! I know everyone says you came early, but we know the secret…you came exactly when you were supposed to. God knew you were meant to be a Carolina boy!
You are a very blessed little guy! You have wonderful parents who love you a whole lot! I know them from college; I was on the worship team with your daddy for a while, too! Your name is on my bathroom mirror at home and will stay there for a while so I remember to pray for you every day! It’s amazing to see how already in your few days on this earth you’ve brought so many people closer to Christ, and I pray that you will continue to do that for many years to come!
Blessings,
Kendra Brenneman
Cindy Hoover | May 29, 2008 | Reply
Hey Asher: Your grandma Mills called me when she heard your mommy was in labor. I was so surprised and worried for you and your mommy and daddy. Your extended family here in LaGrange began to pray for all of you immediately. The Church of God prayer chain was started and that was all we could do. It doesn’t seem like enough sometimes and yet we know God is in control! I have been reading about you and I am so impressed with your daddy. I’ve learned more about him through this time of unexpected blessings. He is a wonderful husband and daddy and I am so happy to see how my nephew loves all of you and puts his trust in God. Our love to all of you. Aunt Cindy and Uncle Marvin
rebecca(the great) | May 30, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
Hey buddy. You are obviously much loved by your parents, and I will be praying for you. Grow strong in God!
Love,
Rebecca
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Becca | May 30, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
We haven’t met yet, but I want you to know how much I love you and your entire family. My husband Matt and I have been praying for you and your family over the phone together since I am away at school in Maryland. We are so proud of you for being so strong! I wish that I was home to visit you in the hospital and be there for your mom, but know that my heart is there. Technically I’m your cousin, but you can think of me as the crazy aunt that lives down the street if you want to. I’ll always be there for you and your sister, and you both will always be in my prayers. I love you!
“Aunt Becca”
Dylan Crewell | Jun 1, 2008 | Reply
Hey there lil’ guy! My name is Dylan. I live in Seattle and am a friend of your aunt Angela who is a hoot! You have a great family little buddy, they love you and will always do right by you! Keep fightin’ and live the great life that awaits!
~Dylan
Ramona Fisher | Jun 5, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher,
My name is Ramona Fisher and your parents are very dear to me. God has given you a Mom and Dad that will love you, care for you and do all they can to ensure that you know how much God loves you. Your Dad and Mom invested so much into my son’s life, Matt, when he was in middle school and high school. I feel like I could never repay them for the gift they gave to me as a mother. Now that Matt’s in college I don’t see your parents as often but I keep thinking about you, wondering how you are doing and praying for you every day.
Love,
Ramona Fisher
Rebecca Schroeder | Jun 6, 2008 | Reply
Asher!!!
I am so excited to meet you!! Im your mommys cousin! Even though I don’t get to meet you til hopefully christmas, i am very anxious to be able to hold you! Pull through little first cousin once removed.. I know you’ll make your mommy and daddy very proud.. and just remember.. even though your big sister is bigger than you right now.. there will come a day when you will be bigger to her! I’ll keep you in my prayers! love becca
Matteo Giovanazzi | Jun 10, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher,
I’m Matteo, a friend from scotland of your aunt Angela. Iv heard so much about you and hope everything goes well. Sending all my prayers and love and hope you get well soon.
Love
Matteo
Brooke | Jun 12, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
You truly are a little miracle and have already stolen all of our hearts! You are such a strong little boy and prove that over and over again each and every day! God has placed you in an amazing family. Your mom and dad are incredible people and your big sister is one fabulous little girl! =]
It is hard to believe that you will already be one month old in just 4 days from now! I, along with many, many others continue to pray for your continued strength and for that temperature of yours to balance out so that you can come home! I love you Asher James.
“Aunt” Brooke
Lindsey Adams | Jun 20, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
I don’t know you or your family, just your aunt Angela. We went to college together. Shes been telling me all about how she was so excited that she was having a nephew. We talked about the fun things i have done with my nephews. Then she told me that you decided to come early. I tried to keep everything positive. Every time you do something new and great she lets me know. I read all about you on this blog. It is amazing how far you have come already. You look so big! You even got to come closer to home. I pray for you and your family every night to make you guys strong and to safely get through this hard time. I just read about this last week about how you cant keep your temp up. Just take your time, I hope that when you finally do come home you are as healthy as can be. The near future is going to be a rough road for you and your family, but in the end it will be a great learning experience. I cant wait to continue reading about all your big obstacles that you overcome. God Bless
Love,
Lindsey
ckroboth | Jun 20, 2008 | Reply
Asher,
WOW…I sit here with tear filled eyes, as I read your story.
Continue to fight. You need to grow up and see the Dad and Mommy who put their faith in a great God.
My prayers are with you.
Carl Kroboth
Buckner, KY
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Robert Kitchens | Jun 25, 2008 | Reply
Asher and Mill’s Family,
I knew your dad from high school and played soccer with him. My wife and I have been following your progress through the website. We are glad that you are finally home and that the family is in one place.
Congrats CJ! I am glad that things are on the up and up!
-Robert Kitchens
Greg Maitrejean | Jun 25, 2008 | Reply
Hi Asher- I am very glad and relieved that you are now out of the hospital and home with your family. I have had you in my thoughts and prayers especially when last week you almost went home- then did not make it. The news that you were able to come home through the grace of God is truly inspirational. May your blessings multiply in the years to come. I will continue to follow you and your family thru the blog, and share inspirations with my family and other church members here in the Temecula Valley(in Southern California)
Jono | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
Dear AJ (I wonder if that nickname will stick. ‘Ol CJ’s did),
You’ve entered the world with much adversity, but also amidst much love from warm parents and helpful friends. Life won’t get easier, and, given the manner of your arrival, might get very difficult. But always keep in mind that you have those same warm parents, a knowledgeable big sister, and the many helpful friends to encourage you and offer advice. It’s easy to overlook people, to take their presence for granted, but constantly seek out friendship and you will always find a helping hand and a willing ear. And in all, God is. A motto I found on the back of my Message:Remixed Bible is one I hold is worth sharing.
Read. Think. Pray. Live.
Read: expand your mind, your opinions, your experiences, your vocabulary
Think: critically examine your situations, the past, the present, the future, what you just read, what the media is saying
Pray: depend on the Lord. Prayer is more than a time just for forgiveness and supplication–it’s a time to mentally and physical act to acknowledge God as Lord
Live: employ all that you’ve read, thought about, and prayed about. Do your best
To add to this list: exercise; eat well; sleep well; laugh heartily; become a die-hard fan of a sports team; take education seriously
I’m hoping to be able to discuss this all when you’re older, when your father pulls this note out of the TimeCapsule he’s buried in the backyard. It would be something special….
Jono